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Carrie Schaeffer's avatar

I’ll have to watch this again and try and key into the humor.

I had a much different experience. I grew up in fundamentalist evangelical Christianity—a high control religion. From my programming, I felt myself wanting the entitled newcomers to fall in line and to (quickly) take on the values of the Harga in order to stay safe—>which is my trauma response (fawning). It was a real eye-opener because just when you think you’re past a lot of that stuff, a movie can dredge it all up again.

I thought the scene where Dani has a panic attack after she sees her boyfriend having sex with someone else was powerful. She’s just lost her entire family to tragedy, and the one person she thinks she can lean on betrays her. I think I’d have a panic attack too. But then the community surrounds her and starts mirroring her grief, seemingly helping her through the pain but also it’s creepy AF. I was left feeling two opposing feelings about the scene: on the one hand, I long for community so complete they even share your emotions (or at least walk you through your emotions so completely) and on the other, to some degree, that communal grief feels performative and false (especially when you consider that the Harga women are also the ones doing the seducing).

I totally agree that this movie definitely shows the extremes of individualism and collectivism played out. The Harga members feel like they have no individuality whatsoever to me—they’re all just the same person which, to this American, feels like the scariest part of this whole movie.

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Kimberly Ramsawak's avatar

1000% agree with your analysis of Midsommar Josh, and I would’ve loved if the movie indeed had that twist of Dani killing her own family due to not being the center of attention. The whole movie was comical to me too, with a lot of me saying “whaaaat” (but not in a good way lol).

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